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How to Easily Decide It's Time to Release Something Irritating

Do you hold too much in your time or space containers? It’s interesting how often you keep things that are annoying, unsatisfying, or in your way. These could be things that take up physical space, creating cluttered rooms and areas. The volume of stuff has become a tripping hazard. Or, having so many things makes it difficult to know what you own or to find what you’re looking for. Your space containers are beyond full, and it may be time to let go of some things.

There are also time containers that can overflow. Instead of physical items, a time challenge can look like-

  • Crammed schedules

  • Saying “yes” to too many requests

  • Underestimating how long a task will take

  • Always running late because you have just one more thing to do

  • Having unhealthy boundaries

  • Spending more time than needed to get something “just right”

  • Being constantly interrupted or distracted

  • Multitasking and trying to do too many things at once

Letting go creates space for what’s most important and valued. That might mean more time to enjoy doing what you truly love, like kayaking, spending time with family and friends, or learning something new.

 

Asking One Simple Question

A while ago, I read something in James Clear’s 3-2-1 newsletter that resonated with me. He asked a direct question that gets to the heart of what I just shared with you – how to manage your space or time containers when they’re overflowing.

Clear’s question is,

What can you eliminate this week?
— James Clear

Setting a deadline (this week) creates urgency and encourages you to act sooner rather than later. Pick an area of focus, such as your full calendar or the distractions you're facing.

Then ask, “What can you eliminate this week?” This might include-

  • Removing or rescheduling an appointment to make your day flow better

  • Pausing to evaluate before saying “yes” to anything else

  • Delegating some tasks or errands

  • Setting a time limit on social media scrolling

Is there anything specific that came up when you thought about removing something this week?

 

 


Decide to Let Go

Your space and time can quickly overflow. The good news is that you can change the dynamic through the process of elimination. One question, one focus area, one decision, and one action at a time.

What is making your space or time feel too full? What would it be like to practice letting go? Which area would you like to focus on first? I’d love to hear your thoughts. I invite you to join the conversation.

 


 

How Can I Help?

Do you feel overwhelmed and disorganized? Are your space and time containers overflowing? I’m here to help! You don’t have to do this alone. Virtual organizing is an extraordinary path forward – Local feel with a global reach.

Let’s connect! I’m easy to reach.

Managing your time, getting organized, and living with more ease are possible, especially with support.

 
 
Did You Know That Taking Breaks Is Key to Better Time Management?

When you think about managing your time, how often is it about being more productive, reaching those big goals, or getting more items crossed off your to-do list today? You wonder how other people get so much done. You’re frustrated that you’re constantly working, yet your lists and goals feel hard to finish or even to start.

After all, there are only 24 hours in a day. For most of us, at least six to eight of those hours are devoted to sleep. Subtract time for eating, transitions, bio breaks, managing distractions, and handling the unexpected, and your available time to get things done is significantly reduced.

I remember my mom used to get annoyed about having to sleep. She would say, “We sleep a third of our lives away. Sleeping is a waste of time.” I never bought into the idea that sleep was a waste. Instead, I saw her words as reflecting her intense need to make the most of every moment.

I’m all for making the most of the time I have. Time is finite and a precious resource. However, one of the best ways to manage your time better is to take intentional breaks. Sleep is one aspect, but taking breaks while awake is just as essential.

 

 


What Types of Breaks Will Help You Be a Better Time Manager?

I know I’m stating the obvious, but you need energy and focus to get things done. Working longer or beyond capacity doesn’t help. You’ve probably reached the point of diminishing returns. You know those nights. You’re exhausted, pushing to finish that spreadsheet, dealing with a sink full of dishes, packing for a trip, or writing one more email response.

However, understanding the benefits of taking breaks and integrating them into your life will help.

It’s more than ‘will help.’ Taking breaks is essential not only for energy, focus, and getting things done but also for your overall well-being. Life isn’t only about doing more. It’s about stepping away for short, medium, or longer breaks.

What can these mid-size breaks look like? Let’s review some options to help you better manage your time. These pauses are about giving you time to recover so you can return to ‘the work’ refreshed, recharged, and energized.

 

1. Short Breaks

You might be thinking, “I’m so busy that I barely have time for a bio break, let alone any other break.” Believe me, I get it. You are not alone in feeling overwhelmed by the pace of life.

However, it is possible to integrate several short breaks into your day. If “short” feels too long, reframe it as a micro-break.

These tiny resets can be taken a few times a day and may include:

  • Close your eyes and take several slow breaths in and out.

  • Stand up and shake out your body.

  • Send a quick email or text to someone you love.

  • Enjoy a few leisurely sips of coffee or iced tea.

  • Eat a snack.

  • Doodle on a sheet of paper.

  • Go outside for fresh air.

  • Take a walk around the office or the block.

  • Roll your shoulders forward and backward.

  • Dance or sing loudly to a favorite song.

  • Take a few deep, loud sighs.

  • Splash cold water on your face.

  • Sit and do nothing for a few minutes.

  • Meditate for 1 to 5 minutes. Insight Timer offers many excellent options.

What else could work well for your micro-break?

 

Life isn’t only about doing more.
— Linda Samuels, CPO-CD®, CVOP™

2. Medium Breaks

Those mini breaks are wonderful, but at times you will benefit from something longer. If you can carve out more than 5 minutes, a medium break is beneficial. While micro-breaks can be impromptu, a medium break might require some advance planning.

Here are some recharge ideas for breaks ranging from 20 minutes to several hours:

  • Take a 20-minute nap.

  • Go to the movies.

  • Take a walk in nature.

  • Meet a friend for lunch.

  • Explore a museum, garden, or town.

  • Get a massage.

  • Meditate for 30 minutes.

  • Write in your journal.

  • Call a loved one.

  • Go to the pool or the beach.

  • Read a book (or a portion of one).

  • Spend time in a hammock.

  • Go for a bike ride.

  • Make something with your hands.

  • Daydream.

  • Take a yoga class.

What other types of medium breaks could benefit you?

 

3. Long Breaks

Full disclosure here. Today I took a micro break (meditated) and a medium break (walked by the river). I also just returned from a long break, a family vacation in the Finger Lakes. I have to say, as much as I need my shorter breaks regularly, the extended ones are just as vital. They can be more challenging to take because of the expense or limited time.

Yet, going somewhere for several days (if possible) and stepping away from your regular routines and responsibilities is one of the best ways to recharge. You will return refreshed, more focused, and ready to re-engage with your projects and lists.

It also gives you time to float, think, catch up on sleep, connect with family and friends, or simply do nothing. But a long break doesn’t have to mean only getting away.

Here are some long-break ideas when you have more than 24 hours:

  • Take a staycation and stick to fun or relaxing activities.

  • Take a personal retreat focused on rest and reflection.

  • Unplug for several days.

  • Learn a new skill just for fun.

  • Create a home retreat with no obligations, errands, or projects.

  • Go away for the weekend, or extend it to a long weekend.

  • Vacation somewhere you have to fly to.

  • Travel to somewhere on your bucket list.

  • Check into a spa or wellness retreat.

  • Go camping or glamping.

  • Vacation somewhere reachable by car.

  • Take a biking, kayaking, or boating trip.

  • Spend an extended visit with loved ones.

What have you enjoyed most during your long breaks?

 

 

Are You Ready to Give Yourself the Breaks You Deserve?

Busy is how many of you describe your lives. There’s nothing inherently wrong with a full life. But make sure you also take a variety of intentional breaks. Breaks are the yin to your ‘busy’ yang.

Do you take regular breaks? What types do you take? Would you benefit from adding more pauses to your life? How would taking more breaks help you manage your time better? I’d love to hear your thoughts. I invite you to join the conversation.

 

 

How Can I Help?

Do you feel overwhelmed, disorganized, and have difficulty managing your time? I’m here to help! You don’t have to do this alone. Virtual organizing is an extraordinary path forward – Local feel with a global reach.

Let’s connect! I’m easy to reach.

Managing your time, getting organized, and living with more ease are possible, especially with support.

 
 
3 Fantastic Reasons to Declutter Now Instead of One Day

Is your life overflowing with stuff? Even if your belongings have ‘homes’ and you know where to find them, does the sheer volume feel overwhelming? Drawing on more than thirty years of working with clients and my own life experience, I’ve seen how the accumulation of stuff happens. It’s a slow (and sometimes not-so-slow) creep of collecting. 

One day, you look around and wonder:

  • Where did all this stuff come from?

  • Do I still need these things?

  • Are they taking up too much space, management time, and mental energy?

  • Is all this stuff necessary for the life I’m living now?

  • What will happen to my belongings when I’m gone?

  • What would life feel like with less?

  • What would it feel like to align what I own with the life I’m living?

There are many ways to think about clutter and the physical items that accompany your life. Let’s look at three reasons why decluttering sooner rather than later could benefit you. If even one idea resonates with you, it could be the cue and motivation you need to begin the decluttering process.

 

 

 

3 Compelling Reasons to Declutter Now Instead of Waiting

1. 300,000!

A frequently cited statistic in the organizing industry and media is the number of things we accumulate. Estimates suggest that the average American household may contain hundreds of thousands of items. The number often cited is 300,000. That’s a lot of stuff!

Whether that’s your number is a separate question. I don’t know what our household number is. Out of curiosity, I counted some objects in a few areas, and I was surprised by what I found:

  • 778 – Number of items in the bedroom clothing closet, including clothes, hangers, shoes, shoe boxes, and some accessories. We have additional clothes and shoes in the dressers and other areas.

  • 289 – Number of items in the dining room china cabinet. We have more dishes in the kitchen.

  • 49 – Number of items in the desk pen cup. I have many more writing instruments in other areas and in the supply cabinet.

The 1,116 items counted so far represent only a tiny portion of what we have in our household. I'm not sure whether we actually own 300,000 items. The idea is to recognize what you have and align it with what you want, need, and use.

By focusing on specific areas and doing a quick count, I spotted several things that could go. For instance, I don’t like all the pens that have landed in the pen cup—time to declutter. Even in the china cabinet, there are several dishes I don’t want that could go. While I regularly go through my clothing closet, more could be edited out.

Being aware of how much you have will help you declutter the things that no longer matter or are not useful to you.

 

 

2. Yikes!

Clutter can cause stress and affect your ability to focus. My clients have described how clutter affects them as,

  • “I have so much clutter I can’t even think.”

  • “I don’t want to feel overwhelmed by my stuff.”

  • “The clutter is distracting, and I can’t focus.”

  • “Clutter makes me feel agitated and angry.”

  • “I don’t want to feel clutter-related stress and anxiety.”

Research backs up the experience my clients describe. UCLA Center on Everyday Lives of Families (CELF) conducted research and discovered that “cluttered home environments were associated with elevated cortisol levels – especially among women who described their homes as chaotic or stressful.” Cortisol is the hormone produced as part of the body’s stress response.

Neuroscience research on cognitive overload and attention, including Princeton University’s work, shows that visual clutter, or “competing visual stimuli,” reduces the brain’s ability to focus and process information efficiently.

Knowing how clutter can affect your stress, attention, and functioning makes a compelling case for decluttering sooner rather than later.

Clutter can cause stress and affect your ability to focus.
— Linda Samuels, CPO-CD®, CVOP™

3. For love.

Recently, I came across an Instagram video featuring Alice D’Antoni Phillips, a psychologist-turned-chef. She discussed the emotional struggle of letting go of sentimental items while downsizing. Alice also described letting go as “an act of care.” She didn’t want to burden her loved ones with decisions about her stuff after she’s gone.

Then she said a beautiful phrase that stuck with me. It’s so gentle, compassionate, and loving. Alice said, “Easing the path of life for the people you love.” In that, she acknowledged that we’re all going to be gone at some point. We are born. We live. We die. That’s the reality.

The other part was about making it easier for the people you love by handling your stuff before you go. Making decisions and decluttering now are expressions of love.

It’s never too soon to start decluttering. Your loved ones will thank you.

 

 

 

 

Why Declutter Now?

There are countless reasons to declutter now, without delay. Some might be:

  • Your clutter is causing undue stress.

  • You have more things than you use, need, or want.

  • You want to make decisions about your belongings so your loved ones don’t have to after you’re gone.

  • You want to downsize and prepare to move.

  • You’re fed up with all the stuff.

  • You want greater clarity of mind and in your space.

What are your compelling reasons to declutter? What is motivating you? Which ideas resonate most? I’d love to hear your thoughts. I invite you to join the conversation.

 

 

 

 

How Can I Help?

Do you feel overwhelmed or disorganized? Is the clutter in your life causing stress and keeping you from living the life you want? I’m here to help! You don’t have to do this alone. Virtual organizing is an extraordinary path forward – Local feel with a global reach.

Let’s connect! I’m easy to reach.

Decluttering, getting organized, and living with more ease are possible, especially with support.

 
 
One Powerful Question: A Shortcut to Help You Release and Let Go

What’s not to love about shortcuts? They aren’t always equally effective. However, when you find one that helps you reach your desired goal more quickly and is less taxing on your brain, that’s a good thing.

Recently, I read an article in Real Simple about interior designer Young Huh and how to create spaces that feel calm. Huh just published a new book, A Mood, A Thought, A Feeling. When starting work on a room, Huh asks a simple question,

“What can I take out?”

Her philosophy encourages you to remove what doesn’t belong and surround yourself with what feels calming and peaceful.

Huh’s question caught my attention. I thought about how helpful it could be during the editing, letting go, and organizing process. There are many ways to approach getting organized. One method is to identify what doesn’t belong, or what you no longer need or want. Or, as Huh says, “What can I take out?”

Spring’s arrival prompts me to clear the landscape and make room for the blooms. What can you let go of to create space for calm and growth?

 

  

Letting Go Starts with Removing Things

Less Clutter, Less Noise

Often, I hear clients describe their environment as:

  • “My house is filled with too much clutter.”

  • “There is so much clutter, I can’t even think.”

  • “I can’t find anything because the things I want and don’t want are jumbled together.”

  • “The clutter paralyzes me.”

  • “I feel chaotic because of the clutter and disorganization in my home.”

Do any of these statements resonate with you? If so, consider asking yourself Huh’s powerful question: "What can I take out?”

This question is a good starting point.

What can I take out?
— Young Huh

More Great Letting Go Questions

Not all questions work for everyone. If Huh’s “take out” question doesn’t resonate with you, consider some alternatives, which you can find in my article: 21 Questions to Exercise Your Letting Go Muscles.

A few of my favorites are:

  • Has it overstayed its welcome?

  • Is it worth the real estate, energy, and maintenance?

  • Does it support your current needs?

  • What will become possible for you when you let go?

Releasing the Stuff

Are you ready to start letting go? If so, here’s a method to try.

  • Choose a room to work in.

  • Gather boxes and trash bags. These will help you easily sort what’s being removed from that space.

  • Label and set up those containers for > Belongs Elsewhere > Donate > Trash > Recycle.

  • With the question in mind, “What can I take out?" start in one corner or area of the room.

  • Focus on releasing items you no longer want or that belong elsewhere. Place items into their designated sorting containers.

  • After you finish one area or surface, move on to the next.

  • Repeat until the room has been decluttered.

  • Route the items you let go of to their ‘homes.’

  • Return to the room and notice how it feels. Does your space feel different? What are you noticing?

 

  

 

What Does Less Feel Like?

When you let go of things that no longer serve a purpose or belong elsewhere, the energy in the space begins to shift. This, in turn, influences how you feel when you're in that environment. Our possessions affect our space, time, and mental clarity. Releasing excess items helps you feel calmer, more focused, and less distracted.

Which ideas resonate with you the most? I’d love to hear your thoughts. I invite you to join the conversation.

 

  

 

How Can I Help?

Do you feel overwhelmed or disorganized? Do you want to let go of the unnecessary but feel stuck or unsure where to start? I’m here to help! You don’t have to do this alone. Virtual organizing is an extraordinary path forward – Local feel with a global reach.

Let’s connect! I’m easy to reach.

Letting go and getting organized are possible, especially with support.