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Here Are 5 Most Interesting and Best Decluttering Discoveries - v55

Enjoy the latest edition (v55) of the “What’s Interesting?” series, featuring my most recent finds that inspire, spark curiosity, and relate to organizing and life balance. These unique decluttering discoveries reflect this month’s blog theme.

You are an engaged, vibrant, and generous group. I am deeply grateful for your ongoing presence, positive energy, and contributions to this community. I look forward to your participation and further contributions to this curated collection.

What do you find interesting?

 

 





What’s Interesting? – 5 Best Next Step Discoveries

1. Interesting Read – Less Clutter

Do you feel overwhelmed by how much your things are taking over your life, space, money, and energy? If so, find inspiration and hope in The Year of Less by bestselling author Cait Flanders.

Cait takes us on her twelve-month journey to stop shopping and give away most of her belongings. During that year, she bought only items on her ‘sanctioned’ list of consumables, decluttered her apartment, let go of 70 percent of her belongings, learned to fix things, paid off debt, navigated family challenges, and worked through addictive behaviors and unhelpful habits.

Through personal stories and practical strategies, Cait guides you toward a more mindful life with less consumption and more time for what matters most to you. When working to reduce the things in her life, Cait said, “I had to let go of the stuff I wanted the ideal version of myself to use, and accept myself for who I really was.”

By the end of Cait’s year, after she took control of her life, released many of her belongings, saved money, and embarked on the next phase of her life, she said, “… all that remained was the real me. It wasn’t much, but it was enough. It was enough. I had enough. I was enough.”

 

 

2. Interesting Perspective – Time Clutter

Clutter isn’t only physical stuff that piles up. There’s also time or calendar clutter. Time clutter can show up as overcommitting, no downtime, double-booking appointments, consistently running late, being overstimulated, never having enough hours in the day, or feeling overwhelmed by your never-ending to-do list.

Artist and writer Jenny Odell coined the acronym NOSMO, “the necessity of sometimes missing out,” in her book How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy. Saying “yes” to everything, ignoring your needs, and lacking boundaries can leave you feeling stressed, time-poor, and exhausted.

If you want to declutter your schedule, start editing. You don’t have to accept every invitation. Instead, focus on how you want your days to flow, how much time you need for transitions, and how much time you want for relaxation.

What can you let go of today?

 

 

3. Interesting Article – Aspirational Clutter  

In the HuffPost article, “Do You Have ‘Aspirational Clutter’? Here’s What You Should Know,” professional organizers explain why this type of clutter can be especially challenging to let go of. Why is that? Aspirational clutter includes “objects tied to our hopes and dreams.”

Aspirational clutter can look like gym equipment that’s never used, clothing that might fit someday, an abundance of yarn you’ve stored for years for sweaters and blankets you want to make, or sets of dinnerware and serving pieces for parties you hope to host someday. There isn’t anything inherently problematic about any of these, except that they aren’t based on what your life is actually like. These things take up space and mental and emotional energy, often accompanied by guilt and ‘shoulds.’

Some other thoughts include:

  •  Seana Turner said, “Aspirational clutter refers to possessions we hold onto for our ‘future self,’ or an idealized future lifestyle.” 

  • Regina Lark said, “Letting it go can feel like giving up on a dream version of yourself, or that you’ve failed yourself in some way.”

All is not lost. The article offers excellent suggestions for managing aspirational clutter, such as

  • Give yourself permission to let go.

  • Recognize that priorities shift.

  • Determine how your space could be better used if you let go of aspirational clutter.

  • Focus on the benefits of letting go.

  • Acknowledge who you are now.

 

It was enough. I had enough. I was enough.
— Cait Flanders

 

 

4. Interesting Product – Organizing Clutter

The truth is, I don’t recommend organizing your clutter. Start by editing and decluttering. Why do that first? You’ll be left with only the things that remain, which are meaningful and useful. Second, the less you have, the easier it will be to organize and maintain.

When it’s time to organize the ‘keepers,’ Aozita’s multi-use caddy organizer is a great choice. Use it to organize art materials, desk supplies, bathroom products, kitchen utensils, or school supplies. It’s portable, available in many colors, adjustable, and inexpensive.

 

 

 


5. Interesting Thought – Life Clutter

What comes to mind when you think of clutter? In the 30-plus years I’ve been helping people declutter and get organized, I’ve heard clutter described as overwhelming, heavy, chaotic, burdensome, bothersome, impossible, frustrating, constant, distracting, stressful, paralyzing, and noisy. Do any of those resonate with you?

Many emotions are intertwined with your experience of clutter. As Peter Walsh says, “Clutter is…anything that stands between you and the life you want to be living.”

What would life be like if you unburdened yourself of the things weighing you down?

 

 

   

 

Which Clutter Ideas Work Best?

When clutter feels overwhelming and paralyzing, what will help? As I shared, there are many types of clutter and strategies to help you move forward.

Which of these discoveries resonates most with you? Do you have any decluttering resources or ideas to share? I’d love to hear your thoughts and invite you to join the conversation.

 

 


 

How Can I Help?

Do you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disorganized? Is clutter preventing you from living the life you want? I’m here to help. Virtual organizing is an extraordinary path forward – Local feel with a global reach.

Let’s talk. I’m easy to reach.

Decluttering and getting organized are possible, especially with support.

 
 
5 Guaranteed Ways That Will Make You Get a Hopeful Fresh Start

Happy New Year! Hello to you and to 2022. Your blank slate is ready to be painted with a wash of gorgeous colors. Behind are the successes and challenges you experienced during the last twelve months. A new level of energy and motivation is here. You can start again and chase the dreams and goals you desire. The New Year cues us for a do-over, reset, or reinvention.

Have you already done your reflecting and planning? Maybe you don’t like to reflect or plan. For me, there are years such as this one, where that process happens in January rather than December. There is no right, wrong, or one way. There are many paths, including making resolutions and setting specific goals, which will help you get the most from the New Year’s fresh start effect. I’m excited to share some ideas with you and would love to hear about your process.

In conjunction with using one or more of the ideas below, I re-read my personal journal entries from the past year and make a list of highlights, challenges, and ah-has. My perspective deepens where I traveled and clarifies where I’d like to go. 

 

5 Ways That Will Make You Get The Most from Your Fresh Start

1. One Word

Choose a single word as your guiding force for 2022. I don’t do this every year but decided to select one word for 2022. It is flourishing. The past few years have been challenging. With my ‘word’ in mind, I want to cultivate the seeds planted and changes made in a positive direction. 

 

 

2. Three Things Reflection

A terrific way to look back on the previous year and ahead to the current one is with the Three Things Reflection. It includes seven pairs of questions such as:

  • What are three things you said “yes” to this past year?

  • What are three things you hope to have the opportunity to say “yes” to in 2022?

I’ve done this exercise for the past several years. I love reviewing the previous year’s reflection to see how many things happened as I had hoped. It’s a great way of gathering a quick overview of the past and future hopes.

Your blank slate is ready to be painted with a wash of gorgeous colors.
— Linda Samuels, CPO-CD®, CVPO™

3. Intention

Consider the ‘intention’ strategy instead of planning every change, minute detail, or date of when “x” will be accomplished. Select an overall intent for your year and let that be your guiding force as you make decisions each day. A few months ago, I purchased the most deliciously scented Hive to Home candle at the Renegade Craft show in New York City. While it smells great, it’s the message on the container “Manifest Amazing Shit” that spoke to me. It is the perfect pairing for my “one word.”  Between “flourishing” and “manifesting,” I feel ready to embrace all that 2022 will bring.

 

 

4. More or Less

Using a single question can help you focus your choices and actions for the year. Are you curious what some of my colleagues like Judith Kolberg, Joshua Becker, Erin Doland, and Yota Schneider had to say about this when asked,

The question will encourage you to think about last year and the current one to create a vision of where you’d like to be.

 

 

5. Past and Future Smorgasbord

A few of my blogging colleagues wrote great posts that describe detailed methods for setting goals and making resolutions. They incorporate the importance of looking back to move forward. Here are my favorites:

 

Did you select a word for the year, set an intention, or create a list of goals? Or, perhaps like me, you’re still in the process of discovering your way into the New Year. Which ideas resonate with you? I’d love to hear your thoughts. I invite you to join the conversation.

Wishing you health, happiness, and a joy-filled New Year!

 
 
Are You Feeling "It" Now More Than Ever, a Strong Sense of Gratitude?

We’ve all been through a lot with the pandemic, change, loss, political unrest, uncertainty, and this sense that life is and will continue to be different. We’ve had to be flexible, resilient, and creative. Last year, many of us canceled Thanksgiving and other holidays that we usually celebrated. Instead, we found different ways to “be together.” Zoom was our new best friend. It was a lost year of non-celebrations and sadness for some of us because we missed the human contact and in-person gatherings

Personally, I’ve felt a great hole from the loss of my mom, who died this year. Yet somehow, as the months have passed, while I miss her greatly, I’m also feeling such gratitude for the wonderful people who are here. Through the tumult, friends, family, and colleagues have brought moments of joy and lightness to a challenging time. We’ve stayed connected through texts, emails, phone calls, social media, Zoom, FaceTime, and in person. 

 

My conversations this fall, which often were “walk and talks,” covered everything from challenges to successes, plans, hopes, dreams, family, friends, work, travel, feelings, stories, tears, laughter, and so much more. Many of these treasured moments happened while we walked side-by-side, taking in the beautiful views of nature or hearing the crunch of the leaves as our feet made contact with the forest floor. 

What does any of this have to do with organizing? Organizing can be about managing our physical stuff and also how we use and prioritize our time. Between pivoting my business to virtual organizing and letting go of things to “live with less,” I made time to stay connected. Life isn’t all about working and doing. It’s also about having time with the special people in your life. 

Life isn’t all about working and doing.
— Linda Samuels, CPO-CD®, CVPO™

I am so profoundly grateful for my family, friends, colleagues, and clients. Life would not be the same without you. There are too many people to name. But I’d like to give a special shout-out to my wonderful husband, Steve, our amazing kiddos Cassie and Allison, and beautiful friends old and new Joanne, Yota, Christine, and Juliet. Thank you for the many ways you share your wisdom, love, and light.

Grateful for wonderful family and friends who bring their special blend of wisdom, compassion, humor, love, and light to this world.

As we navigate the holiday season, who do you want to connect with? Who are you grateful for? How do you connect with the people most important to you? I’d love to hear your thoughts. I invite you to join the conversation.