How to Use That Energy Boost You Get From a Fresh Start

Have you experienced the surge of energy you feel after you’ve cleared? The cleared I’m referring to comes in many forms from spaces to thoughts to time. There’s a feeling of lightness, as if we've dropped pounds. There’s a lightness of spirit with a dab of euphoria. When we’re weighted down by our “stuff,” our thoughts and being becomes sluggish. Clearing, decluttering, reducing, editing, and lightening, often bring about a positive, happy feeling.

What can you do with that lightness? That feeling can be accompanied by clarity of thought, openness for opportunities, ability to stretch towards new goals, and desire to embrace a fresh start.

I have three simple experiences to share that connect with this idea. I’d love to hear about your experiences too.

 

Year End Clearing

At the end of each calendar year, I go through our financial files and remove the receipts and bank statements from my filing cabinet, organize them into oversized, labeled envelopes, and put them into a labeled storage box. By the end of the year, these receipts and statements take up a lot of real estate in my file drawer. It always feels great to remove them in order to make room for the current year.

This year, after I ousted the files, I took a few minutes to appreciate and acknowledge the cleared space. My file drawer was no longer crammed and I could easily access the remaining files. I felt freer and both physically and mentally ready to handle the current year.

 

Card Clearing

In that same drawer was a file that held cards and notes I’d received from family and friends. The easy access file is the temporary holding spot until it becomes too full. When it does, I get out the step ladder and transfer the cards into one of three purple “card” boxes stored in a nearby closet. When I pulled out the boxes, I discovered they were full.

Instead of buying more boxes I decided to keep only as many cards as the boxes would hold. It meant I needed to do some editing, which I did. Then I organized the boxes by category – one for my husband’s cards, one for our daughters, and one from everyone else.

My drawer was lighter, my boxes were clearer, and I felt grateful and happy rereading these beautiful messages from my loved ones.

 

Mind Clearing

Later this week, I’ll be traveling to St. Louis for an ICD Board meeting. One of my favorite parts of traveling is the airplane time. I’ve written about this often and it’s worth mentioning again. My “air” time is for clearing my thoughts. I think, read, and write without any distractions or interruptions. I’m looking forward to the energy boost and clarity that will result. I’ll go forward with a renewed outlook and openness to ideas and possibilities. It works every time.

What have you cleared? What have you noticed as a result? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Come join the conversation.

 

 

 

 

How to Get a Fresh Start After Embarrassing Yourself

There’s nothing like embarrassing yourself to crave a do-over or fresh start. It’s often a minor perspective shift that helps us to reflect and begin again. How timely that my year started with such an incident.

I was ready for that first Monday back from the more leisurely holiday schedule. I woke up knowing where I needed to be and when. My morning routine resumed with my wake-up alarm, exercises, shower, dressing, breakfast and deskwork. To gear up for the day and week, I double-checked my schedule and list of to dos. The New Year had arrived and I was looking forward to the first organizing session of the year.

Like I often do, I set a timer as my auditory cue, so that I wouldn't be late to my client's. The timer rang so I got ready and left. The day was going as planned. Even with some traffic, I arrived at my client’s on time…or so I thought.

As it turns out, I got there two hours early. My client wasn't home. After some confusion (it still hadn’t occurred to me that I was early), when I realized my mistake about the start time, I explained and apologized to her gracious husband and said I'd return at the correct time. So much for the organizer being organized, right? This was embarrassing to arrive at the wrong time...the really wrong (as in two hours early wrong) time.

Next steps…laugh at self and find the nearest Starbucks. Having this unexpected block of time, I enjoyed slowly sipping a latte and writing this post. I used to write at Starbucks, but hadn’t done that in a while. This was a welcome change of environment. And somewhere during the latte drinking and writing, I came up with a few reminders that helped me shift my perspective and embrace a fresh start. I hope that the lessons I found would be helpful for you the next time you have an incident.

 

Linda’s New Year's Lessons:

  • Mistakes happen.
  • Discover the gift in those mistakes.
  • Be flexible.
  • Don't assume.
  • Improve looking and listening.
  • Find the humor.
  • You’re human.
  • Add this one to my bloopers reel.

 

Are there any “situations” you’d like to share with us? What were your takeaways? What helped you to move forward after an embarrassing incident? What allowed you to embrace a fresh start? I’d love to hear your thoughts. Come join the conversation.

 

 

 

 

12 Most Popular Organizing Concepts to Help You Focus

We’re just a few days from this year ending and a new one beginning. Are you in vacation or wrap-up mode? Are you planning, relaxing, or maybe doing a combination of both. Before I move forward, I like to reflect on the past. I’ve put together for you highlights from the most popular posts of 2015 along with a short video. If you find one of my quotes that speaks to you, go back to read the original post. Maybe you’ll discover a seed idea that will inspire you as you organize for the New Year.

What area will you focus on to create the balance that you desire? Where do you want to give your time, energy and attention?

 
Watch, read, then join the conversation!

 

 "12 Popular Organizing Concepts from 2015" video

 

 

WINTER 2015

Fresh Start

“Computers have a restart button. Why can’t we have a ‘fresh start’ button?”

Pressing the Restart Button 

 

Change

“…sometimes it’s essential to change our routines.” 

How to Embrace Small Changes 

 

Next Step

“Make the next step small enough to motivate forward movement.”

How to Make Next Smaller and Actually Feel Wonderful

 

 

 

SPRING 2015

Letting Go

“When we’re able to let go…we create space for what’s truly important.” 

What Inspires You to Let Go of Your Clutter? 

 

Clutter

Clutter is complex…we become emotionally attached to our things.” 

Two of the Most Powerful Clutter Concepts

  

Time Management

“Amazing moments are the ones we notice. Which moments fill your time?” 

 


 

SUMMER 2015

Motivation

“If I’m exhausted, I won’t have the energy or motivation to do anything.” 

How to Re-Motivate When Life Gets in the Way 

 

Enlisting Help

Enlisting help is a human experience whether we embrace it or not.” 

10 Valuable Kinds of Help to Improve Your Life

 

Success

“The next time you’re stuck with solving a problem, get up and walk.”

Easy Success Tips to Boost Your Creativity and Learning

 

 

 

FALL 2015

Possibility Thinking

“…benefits of being mindful…you are open to new ideas, challenges, and possibility thinking.” 

Powerful Influence of Mindfulness on Possibility Thinking 

 

Wonderfully Human

“It’s in the diversity of experiences and feelings that we appreciate what it means to be human.” 

How to Unlock Gigantic Gifts in What Makes You Sad

 

Life Balance

“Feeling out of balance is a human experience, no matter where you’re from.” 

Guaranteed Solutions for Restoring Your Life Balance 

 

 

My gratitude goes to you for being part of this community. We’ve had a wonderful year of conversations and sharing of ideas and resources. You fill every day with learning, growth and wonder. Thank you for coming back again and again to share your best.

Wishing you and your loved ones a happy, joy-filled New Year!

 

 

 

 

 

 

12 Best Insights of the Year to Get You Thinking

As the year comes to a close, we reflect and future-think. When we’re exposed to others’ insights, it can spark our own ideas. The conversations we have on the blog are one of my greatest joys and insight generators. We’ve talked about change, clutter, letting go, time management, life balance and more.

I’m grateful for and inspired by the thoughtful words and generous sharing of this community. Thank you to my top engagers – Janet Barclay, Jill Robson, Seana Turner, Nacho Eguiarte, Diane Quintana, Ellen Delap, Sue West, Sheila Delson, Cameron Gott, Leslie Josel, Andrea Sharb and Susan Lasky. I’ve curated twelve of my favorite quotes from the comments you’ve written this year, selecting one from each month and topic. I’m thankful for everyone that adds to our conversations. I’m deeply grateful for the regular supporters and contributors. You bring hope, light, curiosity, and learning to our days.

 

Enjoy the year in review, one quote and insight at a time. . .

 

Fresh Start

“It’s always good to have a reset button. That way we don’t get bogged down in self-doubt. Reminding ourselves it is all right to start again, gives more scope for discovery.”

Jill Robson on Pressing the Restart Button

 


Change

“Small changes are key to lasting change. I have found that when someone tries to make a sweeping huge change it backfires, but when they set a goal and take small incremental steps toward the stated goal they are successful.”

Diane Quintana on How to Embrace Small Changes?

 


Next Steps

“Making tasks smaller and more manageable makes tasks do-able. I think we all get overwhelmed at some time, but it’s in chunking things down to baby steps that anything can be accomplished.”

Ellen Delap on How to Make Next Smaller and Actually Feel Wonderful 

 

 

Letting Go

“I’m a year or so into my process of letting go of stuff and commitments…what I’m noticing is how letting go is becoming part of who I am and how these days I seem to almost crave releasing. I’m also noticing that the more I let go of, the more I become aware of what can be released. What I’m noticing most is that with each item released I experience greater freedom.”

Andrea Sharb on What Inspires You to Let Go of Your Clutter?

 


Clutter

“Some people have so much mind clutter that they can’t appreciate the value of a spontaneous, spacious morning. ‘Too much to do,” they say. Acknowledging mind clutter is the first step to doing something about it, but unlike a room of clutter, stepping away from the clutter in the mind can whisk much of it away. Mindfulness or the act of just being present doing something you love is a powerful antidote to ‘too much on the brain.'"

Cameron Gott on Unique Ways to Manage Mind Clutter

 


Time Management

“One thing that struck me is the opposite of the white space; how you take the time and energy to commit to where and how you will spend your schedule time (planning) – the intentional ‘yeses.’ White space (free time) is even more meaningful when there is clarity and purpose to the surrounding time blocks.”

Susan Lasky on What Happens When Your Time is Crammed and Overscheduled?

 


Motivation

“I think it is hugely important to ‘schedule the unscheduled!’ I think it is important to understand your rhythms though. Where and how do you really relax? Can you unwind at home or is the pull of day-to-day life too much? Do you need one long get away to recharge or are mini vacations or even a day at the beach enough? Do you need to sit still or do you need to explore a new city from sun up to sun down?”

Leslie Josel on How Motivated Are You to Slow Down?

 

 

Enlisting Help

“Realizing that it’s okay to ask for help, whether it be delegating a difficult or time-consuming task to someone else, asking for advice, or seeking answers online, goes a long way towards reducing overwhelm in my life.”

Janet Barclay on Shift Perspective By Asking, "What help do I need?"

 

 

Success

“I am a ‘doodler’ of sorts, and always have been. Sadly often criticized for doing so because it ‘looks’ like I’m daydreaming instead of listening! However, I too find that the activity of doodling (and sometimes note-taking) indeed helps to ‘anchor’ my learning potential.”

Sheila Delson on Easy Success Tips to Boost Your Creativity and Learning

 


Possibilities

“Values play a key role in significant relationships, financials, free time uses, whom I choose for friends, our reactions and responses. We are so much happier when we know that we are (a) aware of what we do value and (b) can see the values in our daily lives and (c) we know we are not compromising our values.”

Sue West on How Authentic Decisions Lead to Growth and Possibilities

 


Wonderfully Human

“Beauty of life is recognizing that absence of sad moments, the happy ones could become just dull. A bad moment is hard to go through, but once it’s over, and happiness arises, the good moment tastes sweeter. My way to approach transitions is understanding that everything changes in life, and sometimes the changes are rough and leave scars.”

Nacho Eguiarte on How to Unlock Gigantic Gifts in What Makes You Sad

 


Life Balance

“Balance, inherently, is something you need to keep adjusting to achieve. Just watch someone on a tightrope…they have to keep moving to keep the balance. So it isn’t a ‘one time’ goal, but rather a journey. At some moments, I may feel like I am falling, but a little shift in position, and I recover. I guess mostly it is being alert and intentional while focusing far down the road.”

Seana Turner on How to Set the Stage for Better Life Balance

 

What resonates with you? Which idea will be helpful for 2016? Come join the conversation!