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When Organizing Challenges Feel Overwhelming, It's Time to Ask for Help

Over the 30+ years I’ve been helping overwhelmed individuals create organization and calm in their lives, most of my clients have been affected by chronic disorganization (CD).

When I first started Oh, So Organized! in 1993, I didn’t know what chronic disorganization was. What I did recognize was that the organizational challenges many of my clients faced were complex, persistent, and deep.

It wasn’t until 1995, when I met Judith Kolberg, a pioneer and thought leader in the organizing industry, and heard her speak at my first NAPO (National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals) conference, that I learned about the term chronic disorganization, which she coined. I began to understand the complexities of CD and the similarities between my clients and those Judith described.

As a CPO-CD® and contributing author to The Chronic Disorganization Tapestry, I’ve spent more than three decades helping people affected by chronic disorganization navigate their organizing challenges with compassion and practical support.

What is Chronic Disorganization?

As defined by the Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD), chronic disorganization:

  • “Persists over a long period of time

  • Frequently undermines the quality of life, and

  • Recurs despite repeated self-help attempts.”

The ICD website further clarifies that “chronic disorganization may be present with brain-based challenges such as ADHD, anxiety, depression, Hoarding Disorder, PTSD, TBI, and more.”

Little did I know that Judith’s panel session at NAPO would have such a profound impact on my work. Since then, I have consistently invested in education, professional development, and certifications to deepen my understanding of chronic disorganization and provide the best possible help and support to my clients. I became actively involved with ICD, received much of my training from ICD, and served as its past president.

 


 

The Chronic Disorganization Tapestry

Almost two years ago, I was invited, along with eleven of my colleagues, to be a contributing author to an ICD book they planned to publish. This was an easy “yes” because I’m a big advocate for ICD, the premier educational resource on chronic disorganization.

Fast-forward to now, and The Chronic Disorganization Tapestry – How to Thrive Despite Organizing Challenges is finally available! This book is a guide that covers:

  • the unique challenges of chronic disorganization

  • simple, evidence-based strategies

  • case studies

  • insights from industry experts

This publication wouldn’t have been possible without the fierce dedication of the Chronic Disorganization Tapestry Task Force members: Carolyn Caldwell, Laurene Livesey Park, Ingrid Tielemans, and Nacho Eguiarte, and the authors’ contributions. My deepest gratitude and congratulations to all!

 

 


A Quick Content Guide

I am honored to be included in ICD’s wonderful new publication, written for people affected by chronic disorganization, professional organizers, and other professionals who support them.

Here is a quick guide to the chapter topics and their authors:

The book is available from retailers including Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Alibris, and Bookshop.

We aren’t meant to go through this life alone. Everyone needs help at times.
— Linda Samuels, CPO-CD®, CVOP™

My Chapter: The Challenge of Giving and Receiving Support

From a young age, I always loved helping others. Over three decades ago, when I considered starting my own company, I knew that helping people had to be a key element of my business. After brainstorming ideas for what type of business would ‘fit’ that requirement, I eventually founded Oh, So Organized!

It felt especially meaningful to be asked to contribute a chapter on giving and receiving support to The Chronic Disorganization Tapestry.

In Chapter 12, “The Challenge of Giving and Receiving Support,” I explore chronic disorganization in that context and ways in which giving and receiving help can foster progress and growth. Perspectives are considered from:

  • individuals affected by CD

  • related professionals who support people affected by CD

  • professional organizers who work with individuals affected by CD

We aren’t meant to go through this life alone. Everyone needs help at times, whether it’s practical, technical, or emotional, or simply the presence of another person alongside us. For people affected by chronic disorganization, and for those who support them, fostering compassion, curiosity, and agency is essential to progress and growth.

 

 

How Can I Help?

Do you feel overwhelmed, disorganized, or stuck? You don’t have to do this alone. I’m here to help! Virtual organizing is an extraordinary path forward – Local feel with a global reach.

Let’s talk! I’m easy to reach.

Getting organized, building confidence, and reaching your goals are possible, especially with support.

 
 
Enlisting Help Isn't Cheating

August 3, 2010 | Updated August 2026

Do you often feel like you’re cheating when you ask for help? Do you think you have to, or should be able to, do everything yourself?

We can think that seeking help is a sign of weakness. I’m not sure why this happens, and I’m occasionally guilty of feeling this way myself.

Over time, I’ve discovered that enlisting help is a great way to learn, reduce frustration, and boost self-esteem.


 

Value of Enlisting Help

Sixteen years after I first wrote this, I’ve had many more opportunities to experience the value of giving and receiving help—both personally and professionally. My perspective has deepened: asking for help isn’t simply a way to get something done.

The right support can help you:

  • Feel less alone

  • See possibilities you might not have noticed on your own

  • Build confidence

  • Move forward when you’re stuck

These ideas took on a special meaning as I contributed a chapter on giving and receiving support to The Chronic Disorganization Tapestry, a 2026 book published by the Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD).

Enlisting help is a great way to learn, reduce frustration, and boost self-esteem.
— Linda Samuels, CPO-CD®, CVOP™

Barriers To Getting Organized

Let’s look at getting organized. Many of my clients experience organizing challenges and have hired me to help them. At times, they’ve expressed their disappointment or guilt, saying things like, “Why can’t I do this myself?” or “What’s wrong with me?”

They might compare themselves with people who seem to organize easily and think that they’ve failed, are inadequate, or have something intrinsically wrong with them. This simply isn’t true. You are not broken. Comparison isn’t helpful. Focus on your strengths and build systems using that perspective.

Organizing strategies aren’t one-size-fits-all, as each person is unique. To make progress, it’s essential to design organizing strategies that support your needs, the way you think, and the way you process.



What Happened When I Enlisted Help

Before I published my book, The Other Side of Organized, I knew I needed help from others with publishing expertise. I hired a book coach, an editor, a designer, a printer, and a publicist. I also sought advice from other professionals, friends, family, and colleagues.

I still made mistakes along the way, but having a team to guide and advise me shortened the learning curve and lessened the impact. Knowing I had these professionals to support me didn’t diminish my confidence; it actually boosted it.

Instead of fighting the desire for support, I embraced the idea of building a team of experts to help me grow and succeed.



How Can I Help?

The next time you find yourself struggling to get organized or facing another challenge, consider reaching out for help. It isn’t cheating. This could be the best decision you make to end your frustration and bring you closer to your goals.

What help would be valuable right now to move you to the next step?