While I haven't  yet made my fall/winter clothing switch, I have put the comforter back on our bed (to my husband's disappointment) and also added a throw blanket. He's not looking forward to the cold winter that will follow fall. The changes even though gradual, are evident. I'm noticing daily the leaves turning colors, wake-up time becoming darker, and evenings feeling cooler. I apprecaite these visible cues. They encourage me to acknowledge that change is an integral part of our lives. This new season is here.

The obvious change in the landscape, which is punctuated by yellows, oranges, and reds, makes me wonder, "Linda where are you with change?" How are your 2013 goals progressing? Are you on track? Do you want to rethink, reevaluate, or alter any of them? Are you stuck? What would move you forward? Do you want to shift your focus? Do you want to let go of anything? What's possible?

The changing environment encourages inquiry. It's a natural time of year to pause, ask, regroup, and move forward. What questions are included in your landscape?

Summer is a wonderful season. Days are longer. Layers of clothing are lighter. Daily pace is slower. Balancing work with play is better integrated. There are more breaks for family and vacation time. There is more time to explore and do things on a whim. I love the combination of having a plan and then letting go of the plan (if only for a day.) It's liberating. Especially since I tend to be more goal-oriented, I appreciate when instead, I just let the time unfold, unplanned.

The rests are essential. Without them, the lists, projects, and want to dos can overwhelm me. Instead, by building in "not do" time, it allows me to restore my energy. During the breaks, I clear my mind and suspend my to do lists. They get a temporary vacation too. This releases me so that I can be present and less distracted by what I'm not getting done. Not doing is a choice too.

After my "not doing" pause, I'm ready, focused, and motivated to accomplish what's next. As your summer progresses, I encourage you to find the balance between action and play that feels right for you.

Lightness is all around. Are you sensing it too? Spring has given us longer, brighter days and less layers to wear. People are letting go of the things they no longer want, need, use, or like. They are deciding that much of their "stuff" is not worth the physical real estate, emotional energy, or maintenance. What am I noticing? Space is opening up. We are breathing better, moving through our days more easily, feeling more focused and less stressed. Like the season, we are feeling lighter as we release, let go, and simplify.

I took a walk recently and my winter coat stayed home. Instead, a light sweater was all that I needed. I felt the warm sun on my face. The air was starting to smell sweet with the first spring blooms. I took a deep, long breath, held it a few moments, then slowly exhaled. It felt wonderful to let go and feel less emcumbered. As I walked, I was grateful for the beautiful day, the warm air, the sweet scents, and the space.

As you move forward in the weeks ahead, notice the lightness that is there for you. Take a deep breath. Hold it. Let it go. You are on your way. What else will you release?

Silly or not, I keep thinking about the phrase, "Oh, So Frothy!" During the holidays, my daughter received a recycled Aerolatte, which is a small, handheld battery operated device that froths your milk for coffee. Since I'd never used one before, she explained to me how to operate it. I cannot begin to express the enormous amount of fun I've been having with this simple gizmo. I experimented with it by varying the milk types, foaming first then adding coffee, or reversing that process. I learned what worked and what didn't, like turning it on after inserting the spindle into the milk is a "yes." I enjoyed a good laugh when the milk splattered all over my face, clothes, and kitchen counter before I learned the trick.

Getting back to Oh, So Frothy!...aside from making me happy to say those words, the phrase reminds me that trying new and joyful things are delightful. Imagine that if something this small can produce such bliss, what else might be possible? It is in the spirit of fun, experimentation, and possibiliites that I enter this year.

Wishing you plenty of time to explore, enjoy, and discover both the tiny and big things that make this year particularly fabulous!

The days are cooling. My hot drink consumption is increasing. The socks and sweaters are reappearing from the drawers. Internal and external changes are visible. As this new season arrives, it brings hope and possibilities for what can be. It encourages me to review. Like a GPS device, I locate myself, and focus on where I am and where I'm heading.

Maybe some of the roads are blocked. Perhaps some of my thinking is blocked. Maybe some of the travel options incude more mileage. Perhaps the further distance is essential to my journey. Maybe there are routes with many tolls. Perhaps the costs are essential payments for the learning.

Taking time to think and review also gives me the opportunity to re-route as needed. I look at the map. Where I am feels familiar. Where I'm heading is less so, yet I'm excited about the growth opportunities and what I might discover on the way.

I hope the changing landscape inspires you to embark on the next leg of your journey. I'm looking forward to hearing about the wonderful possibilities that are ahead for you.

Time is for many things. There are rushed and busy times, focused and well-paced moments, and periods of transition and angst. Transition time seems to be the theme of late for me. Besides noticing the shift of seasons, it's also been a time of change in family dynamics, clients' lives, and business.

In the last several years, our daughters have left the nest, many clients, family members, and friends have passed away or moved, family traditions have shifted, writing and social media output, coaching training, and mentoring have increased, socializing with friends has become more frequent, and some of my volunteer activities have decreased. While there have been additions, the losses are noticeable. Some transitions come and go quickly, while others linger and take more time for adjusting.

During this transition, I've tried to be patient with myself. I've removed the pressure to figure everything out. I've invited in some essentials like time to write, walk, and be around nature, friends and family. While some time was used to process and future think, allowing myself to just be in the moment, has helped me navigate this time of change. What is shifting for you? What helps you negotiate your new normal?