Hope

The days are cooling. My hot drink consumption is increasing. The socks and sweaters are reappearing from the drawers. Internal and external changes are visible. As this new season arrives, it brings hope and possibilities for what can be. It encourages me to review. Like a GPS device, I locate myself, and focus on where I am and where I'm heading.

Maybe some of the roads are blocked. Perhaps some of my thinking is blocked. Maybe some of the travel options incude more mileage. Perhaps the further distance is essential to my journey. Maybe there are routes with many tolls. Perhaps the costs are essential payments for the learning.

Taking time to think and review also gives me the opportunity to re-route as needed. I look at the map. Where I am feels familiar. Where I'm heading is less so, yet I'm excited about the growth opportunities and what I might discover on the way.

I hope the changing landscape inspires you to embark on the next leg of your journey. I'm looking forward to hearing about the wonderful possibilities that are ahead for you.

Transitions

Time is for many things. There are rushed and busy times, focused and well-paced moments, and periods of transition and angst. Transition time seems to be the theme of late for me. Besides noticing the shift of seasons, it's also been a time of change in family dynamics, clients' lives, and business.

In the last several years, our daughters have left the nest, many clients, family members, and friends have passed away or moved, family traditions have shifted, writing and social media output, coaching training, and mentoring have increased, socializing with friends has become more frequent, and some of my volunteer activities have decreased. While there have been additions, the losses are noticeable. Some transitions come and go quickly, while others linger and take more time for adjusting.

During this transition, I've tried to be patient with myself. I've removed the pressure to figure everything out. I've invited in some essentials like time to write, walk, and be around nature, friends and family. While some time was used to process and future think, allowing myself to just be in the moment, has helped me navigate this time of change. What is shifting for you? What helps you negotiate your new normal?

Releasing

I'm a fan of sticky notes, and especially Anne Taintor's vintage-inspired ones. She has a great sense of humor. There are a few of her designs that are relevant to the "letting go" theme I'm writing about this month. One says, "Just file it under 'who cares?'" Another says, "The day was in dire need of a Ctrl+Alt+Delete." I've interpreted the messages as, keep what's important and let go of what's not. This pertains to our physical things like papers, magazines, clothing, or toys. It also relates to the negative thoughts that we allow to propagate and cloud our days.

Letting go isn't always easy to do. In fact, it can be downright challenging. Sometimes we are able to do this on our own. However, when we're stuck, it can be useful to enlist help from a family, friend, or professional. Sometimes we need encouragement and support from another person to push forward.

The good news is how great we feel on the other side. When we get in the releasing, letting go, and getting-rid-of mode, we set the stage for possibilities, clarity, and growth. What will you "Ctrl+Alt+Delete" this spring?

Goals

Especially at this moment in time, I sense shifts and changes. Traditions of the past have made way for new ones. Our once young children are blossoming into independent adults. Thoughts swirl around my brain about which goals to pursue, what needs to be dropped, and what I imagine the coming year to be like. My mood is reflective as I think about all that happened last year. Did I accomplish everything I set out to do? I reached some goals like blogging weekly, spending more time with friends, and redesigning my organizing website and logo. The year was also filled with sadness like saying good-bye to a long-standing client who passed away last month, and going through the challenges of my dad being ill.

One thing I'm very clear about is that whether life is going brillantly or not, I am extremely grateful for the love and support of my family, friends, colleagues and clients. They give my life meaning and purpose. While I love to set goals and reach them, it is within the context of having strong bonds and time with those I love that makes each day richer.

I wish each of you great love, joy, perspective, and success in this New Year!

Patience

The main room in our home has big windows with views of the woods. As I sit looking out enjoying my morning coffee, I am fully aware of the changes before me. Not that long ago, I saw the hot summer sun casting its bright light on all the lush greenery. Now the greens of summer are shifting to the warm browns, reds, oranges and yellows of fall. I take great delight in the beauty beyond the windows. In addition, this is nature's reminder to me that change is gradual and ever-present.

This mirrors our experience. Sometimes we get impatient with making the changes we seek. Our quest can feel long, daunting and never-ending. Yet at the point when we stop to reflect, we realize that just like the cycle of the seasons, we too have changed and come to the next stage. There is meaning and hope in the journey and the discovery. Let this season inspire you with both patience and action.

Change

"My naked little feet are perched happily upon my purple velvet stool." How does that email message I sent to my husband relate to organizing?

A while ago, I purchased a piece of fabric to cover a foot stool that I use regularly at my computer desk. Months passed until finally I enlisted my husband's help with the project. In less than thirty minutes, he fixed the stool and enhanced my work environment. While the time investment was small, the effect was huge: "Happy feet!" That's the signifcance of this story.

Very often when we think about the changes we want to make, they seem so large and looming that they paralyze us into inaction. When we're able to take even one very small step, the results can be so surprisingly positive that it encourages us to take another and continue moving ahead. Slow is fine. Life doesn't have to be a race. Find a pace that works for you.

With the arrival of fall, I encourage you to take your next small step towards the change you seek- be it fixing a stool, organizing a drawer, or simply sorting the pencil cup. Bring on the happy!